I am sleeping in a new home tonight for the first time in five years. Just yesterday I was struggling with the idea of how it would happen. The most helpful tool for staying in the moment, even when stressed, was reminding myself that whether I worried or not, it would happen just the same. And wouldn’t you know, it happened.
Retaining equanimity does not mean that you don’t experience emotion. Equanimity is allowing yourself to experience life in all of its manifestations, allowing life to be as it truly is. In this way you become one with life, and are carried in the infinite flow of its energy.
Reaching samadhi doesn’t means that you go into a trance or withdraw from life. If that were so, you can find a whole bunch of rocks sitting on a mountainside and you can say they are in samadhi. Samadhi means you retain your equanimity, you still function in the world without losing your equanimity. You become like a good surfer: well balanced as you surf the waves. A good yogi will always be balanced and surf in the world, facing both ups and downs alike. You will never get hurt, depressed by a depression in a wave or excited by a crest of a wave going upward. You will still remain balanced. That means you are perfectly healthy. Nothing and nobody can make you sick or can shake you.
God bless you. Om Shanti, Shanti, Shanti. (Swami Satchidananda)