This morning I listened to Deepak Chopra’s The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success as I was getting ready for work. Chopra talks about accessing the field of potentiality, the space in which your highest dreams have the opportunity to manifest, and how to access this space. One of the prescriptions he gives is to go the day without judgement. Along with other tools, such as meditation, going without judgement creates space for the highest potential of any moment to arise.
I made the decision as if it was easy, “Sure I can go the day without judgement!” Which within ten minutes turned into me becoming aware of how often I was judging the world around me. I first noticed it standing at the bus stop. I saw a guy park his car “way too far” from the curb, and as I was thinking this thought, I realized I was already judging! In conversations with friends and coworkers, I began to notice how often I voiced my opinion.
I wasn’t just noticing negative judgement, I also noticed that I judged things all the time in a positive manner. I would see a tree and think, “What a beautiful tree!” I would look up at the sky and think, “Such interesting clouds today.” Negative or positive, I found that I was constantly in judgement.
This experiment was anything but a failure, it truly helped me see how often I was judging the world around me instead of perceiving it as it really was. Tomorrow I’m going to try again and see what happens. I invite you to join me in going one day without judgement, just to see what it’s like! Let me know how it goes, I’d love to hear your story!
Surely positive judgment is ‘allowed’? What could be so wrong with finding beauty in a tree? Great experiment idea!
Thanks! And I’ve been pondering that too, about positive judgement, because there’s nothing wrong with it! I had the thought that while experimenting with suspending judgement, letting go of even positive judgement stops mental labeling which can allow an even deeper experience of the being of something like a tree.
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In the winter when trees are bare of their leaves and color, do we still judge them as being beautiful? But is is any less the same tree you saw in the summer or fall? Appreciating a tree for just being a tree is truly what it is about. Not judging is not easy.