“Whenever there is unhappiness in the background of your life (or even in the foreground), you can see which of these thoughts applies and fill in your own content according to your personal situation:
‘There is something that needs to happen in my life before I can be at peace (happy, fulfilled, etc.). And I resent that it hasn’t happened yet. Maybe my resentment will finally make it happen.’
‘Something happened in the past that should not have happened, and I resent that. If that hadn’t happened, I would be at peace now.’
‘Something is happening now that should not be happening, and it is preventing me from being at peace now.’
Often the unconscious beliefs are directed toward a person and so “happening” becomes “doing”:
‘You should do this or that so that I can be at peace. And I resent that you haven’t done it yet. Maybe my resentment will make you do it.’
‘Something you (or I) did, said, or failed to do in the past is preventing me from being at peace now.’
‘What you are doing or failing to do now is preventing me from being at peace.’” (Tolle 114)
Do any of these thoughts sound familiar? Seeing them without content lays bare the structure of the egoic mind that does not recognize the present moment, living in the phantom past and future. Shining the light of your own awareness on the voice of the ego is the beginning of its end.
3 thoughts on “The 6 Thoughts That Are Keeping You Unhappy”
So true, it happens the other way around, first be happy/at peace, whatever, then something good will happen. And resenting others for not making us what we need to make of ourselves is just wrong! But happens all the time.
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