When there is something you want to change about your life there is one vital first step. Whether it be a situation, a relationship, a feeling, or a lifestyle that needs to change, the necessary first step is always the same.
What is this important precursor to positive change? Simply put: acceptance.
Before change, before action, before decisions, accept what is. Your mind won’t want you to, because non-acceptance is its lifeblood. But here is what the ever-present stream of thinking doesn’t know: when you are at peace with what is, whatever follows will be in alignment with that peace and create more of the like.